How to move on (or sort out a girl giving you the silent treatment) from a relationship (for guys)

1) well if you and someone had a fight, YES, send them 1 last e-mail, one MSN message, one message on their online profile, one text message..

One whatever.. And leave it at 1. If they don't respond then .. Well it depends on how much investment you've made in them.

If this is a first date and you're a guy.
A) DINNER
B) GAS depending on how far she lives
C) money for whatever else.. Supposedly guys take care of the first date ..
D) phone time if its long distance or ate away ur minutes
E) MSN time.. Etc.. All the time talking to them instead of doing your school projects, or researching how to make money or whatever else goals you have in life... The time you made that person a priority over your friends...


Now if its beyond the first date, the multiple the above numbers and effort, time , money, by the number of dates.


2) Okay, you love her.. She's the sweetest girl in the world. The most gorgeous girl in the world and there is nobody else like her..

I used to literally believe this. Then another girl smiled at me, and looked at me like I'm some sexy expensive car. ... I never had a good opportunity to approach this girl... Nonetheless she proved that other girls are just as sweet, if not sweeter.



CONCLUSION:
1)Is the girl really worth trying to contact so much?
1) does she have a job?
2) is she responsible?
3) does she act like she's better than you ?
4) is it going to take forever to get some from her ? :D .. Sorry had to throw that one in ..
5) does she do her part in terms of paying for a date , or does she live in the past.. Where guys get the money and girls are sex objects and princesses.



A MAJOR THING TO RESOLVE IS :

1) Why is she not talking to me? .. Was it something I said or did.. And if you do get a 1 on 1 .. Actual conversation.. Not some e-mail or something.. Then use it...


Conflict Resolution .. Important tip:

If you are not receiving communication from the person, do NOT send them one long e-mail or 15 e-mails or messages on MSN etc.
Instead, be patient.

You do not want to upset the person with so many messages.. Or long messages.. Instead just play it cool, don't act like they are the world to you, whether it is true or not.


In Person, on on the Phone.. A LIVE CONVERSATION or on MSN .. Not just leaving messages for each other... is the real way to resolve a conflict ...


Otherwise you could say something to offend them, or give them the wrong idea.. And they will be thinking something and may not even give you a chance to explain or to forgive you...


Obviously, if a girl sinks so low to give you the silent treatment then maybe take it as a warning sign...

The last thing you want is to go years and get this silent treatment and be thinking

"after all I've done for you, you can't even have the decency to let me say what I need to say" .

The YouTube video that changed my life forever ..(no joke)

So I watched a YouTube video called "1st 20 minutes of the secret" ... Ended up getting the whole thing

Long story short after I started to use it loads of miracles appeared in life
Like typical with people guys or girls .. I wanted to meet that special someone and make loads of money.

Well every weekend I was given loads of things to do by my parents. So that was quite upsetting because I worked fulltime and then in weekends instead of relaxing I was given more and more work ..

So this weekend I decided to change things. I stayed in bed and thought "okay he won't be home" and bam by some miracle my dad wasn't home and didn't take the car either.
That was one of the best weekends ever.

How about miracle number two ... My luck with the ladies wasn't really working out . I literally believed at the time that I wasn't going to meet anyone ... That the girl who I meet if ever would save me from being single .

That attitude has changed. I now believe that If a Girl rejects me then I should feel sorry for her ... And hey If she's that stupid to reject a guy who could make her so happy then her loss. Recently on tdotwire loads of girls started to reply to me ... Obviously my messages before were too long ,

A simple "hey howz it going" works wonders. Saying you're pretty is a bad move. And of course a source of hope is that there will always be gorgeous girls on the site

So a very pessimistic person becomes a positive person


-- Posted from my iPhone

Repetition theory

Does repeating a challenging task twice in a week have any correlation to the ability to do the task any better... Would the difficulty of that task be a factor?

The challenging task is what has always been discussed here. And indeed in every trial you can get a supposed success which turns out to be failure in the end.. But so far this supposed level 3 seems to be quite above what is easy to achieve
For it relies on attractiveness of 2 people , location of 2 people, age of 2 people ... And potentially other factors such as religion

-- Posted from my iPhone

The world against me and some advice

So today was fucked ... Morning ... Wake up ... Throw up but since I didn't have a good dinner the previous night there was really nothing to throw

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Sick and tired

It's amusing getting rejected by bitches not even worthy ... Maybe it is indeed for the better ... Sick and tired of the fucking fobs who lack the capacity to put themselves in your own shoes

Apparently along with being fucking English crippled they are also manner crippled...

But as usual the post and topic isn't really about those baby brains.

Instead it's about mrs tight Asian who couldn't keep her eye off of me this morning.... Why the hell would some chick keep looking at me every two seconds as if I'm the thing missing in her life ..

And after my suffering of being sick for weeks ... In having my only hope at a non ugly girlfriend ... Being some pathetic uneducated .... Ok fine ... She probably would be educated but no match for a superior being... Like myself.

Point being it's an extremely annoying situation in trying to pick up or court or flirt with a girl in fast food

So technically you would call this post ... How does a guy in coop pickup a young looking girl downtown ... And yeah she was just out of high school ..

I detected a good vibe .. And up till rejection ... It looked like she gave a damn...
Why I thought she gave a damn
1 she wore a wrong hat and her hair was shoved in and I was sort of smiling so she asks me .. "does my hat look weird today" or something of that nature ... Actually it was .. Are you laughing at my hat.

And 2 she remembered the drink of my order...
So anyways after consulting loads of people I go and attack ... Go at 3pm when
1 coworkers are not around
2 customers are not around


So I'm like how was your weekend and stuff ,. And we talk about our education levels ... So I say "what time do you get off work" then I invite her for coffee ... She's like no... That's ok. Game over

I messed up in terms of potential miscommunication in two ways

1 I said I had college education however failed to mention that I am a coop and going back to finish my 4th year ... Thus it implied I'm like 23 and her being 18 she possibly found that I am too old

2 there is a chance that she found college education not worthy of her

3 of course Theres the chance that she had a bf or found me ugly ... Or whatever below her perfect standards ... Not to mention height and all that crap ..
Well here I an with. 3 tight Asians in the past days who couldn't keep their eyes off me ... God I wish more hot chicks were approachable at school ... On the subway ... Coming up the stairs was some cute brown chick .. Even looking at her is worth money .. Never mind dating her

Okay actual approaches
2 failures with fast food chicks
... Well at least 5 club rejections

-- Posted from my iPhone

Facebook delete all Links imacros script

its easy to record.. Anyways I use these all the time..
Also remember if you're deleting all your wall posts facebook only stores about 3 months worth or 1500 wall posts tops.. If I remember..

==DELETE LINKs==

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==QUIT ALL GROUPS==
(you will have to manually kill groups you created.)

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The last steps to make your profile friendly is to delete your pictures which are questionable and also fan pages I guess.

True torture

True torture... The emotional kind ... Sure in sick ... I have a headache

The world gives you chances and you gotta do or day something right away . Or you're fucked

-- Posted from my iPhone